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And we have two daughters who do not need to see either of their parents in serious relationships right now.

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Like Jennifer, she needs some advice but is concerned about how she can make the transition into dating easy on her children. He'd like to date again, and some of his friends say he should start looking for a woman now — after all, he's getting divorced soon.

But John knows better because he's still married, and dating now would go against God's desires.

Avoid shirtless selfies and photos taken from above (the My Space angle) at all costs, and have a friend check out the end product to determine whether it showcases you in your best light.

The people you date will be curious about your relationship history.

Jennifer's, Samantha's and John's concerns are common, because according to the U. Census Bureau, 19.3 million Americans get divorced each year, and many of them date and eventually remarry.

Perhaps you share their concerns, as you're also wondering how you can reenter the dating world after divorce — and do so according to God's standards. Divorce is the death of the dreams you had when you committed yourself "for better or for worse." As a Christian, you can't simply separate from your spouse one day and hit the dating field the next.

Dating after divorce has a few rules to keep in mind so that you don’t get caught up in some fantasy about "finding the one" or something equally complicated.

I’m after divorce, which is one of the biggest pitfalls one steps into.

And as with any loss, big or small, time is needed to grieve and to reassess who you are, where you've been and where God wants you to go.

Healing is also necessary to follow God's command to" do unto others what you would have them do unto you," (Matthew ).

It's a fair and necessary question because, for the most part, they’ve been in a seemingly monogamous marriage and probably haven’t been on a date in awhile...never mind had sex with a condom again after how many years!

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